¿What is Wrong With Muslims Today?

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I Have Been Muslim For 2Years Now. In Those Two Years, I Have Seen A lot of Things That Disgusts Me Big Time. Here Are Couple Examples:

1) That There Is No Unity Among Muslims Whatsoever. I Have Come Across With a lot of Arab Muslims Who are Arabists Big Time. The Mosque I Go to Has Plenty of Those (I Have Come Across With Few of Them). Example..Some Lady Told Her Friends in Arabic That Me and Another Latina Muslimah..."And They Swear They are Arabs." I'm Not Saying All Arabs Are Like That. I Remember On a Jumma Day, The Shiek That Was Giving a Speech, In His Speech, He Asked..."¿How Many of You Muslims Would Pray at a Pakistian or How Many Pakistinians would Pray in an Arab Mosque?"..

Also, Last year I Used 2Chat on Msn with Random People, Well One Day I Was Chatting With a Pakistinian Muslim. Out of Nowwhere, he Starts Talking Bad About Arab Muslims And Arabs in General. I Ask Him Why Was He Saying that. He Said "Here in England, A lot of These Arab Muslims Don't Like To Pray With Non-Arab Muslims At All." I Told him That He Can't Judge Everyone and I Told Him How My Dearest Husband Prays With Everyone And He Don't Care Where They Are From. All He Said, "One out of a Few." I also Told Him, Not All Arabs Are the Same. I Know Plenty That Are Really Kind Hearted And Awsome.

Arab Muslims Aren't The Only Ones Who Look Down At Other Muslims, But I Notice Pakistinian Muslims Too. A lot of My Mates Say The Same. I Remember Going to a Napoleon Outlaw Lecture, There Were a lot of Pakistinian Muslims. A lot of Those Muslimahs Were Giving Me and My Mates All kind of Looks. We Were Like Whatever.

"An Arab has no Superiorty over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab over an Arab and a white person has no Superiorty over a black person, nor a black person over a white person-except by piety and good actions."-Muhammad (sw).

Qur'an 49:13: O men! Behold, We have created you all out of a male and a female, have made you into nations and tribes. so that you might come to know one another...>Asad(49,16)..> Verily, the noblest of you in the sight of God is the one who is most deeply conscious of Him. Behold, God is all-knowing, all-aware.

This Issue Upsets Me. This Ummah Consists of all Colors. Islam is Color Blind. When I Talk With Non-Muslims and When This Issue is Bring Bought up, I Tell Them, There is No Racism in Islam But there Are Racist Muslims.

In My Personal Opinion, The Most Friendliest Muslims Are The Black Muslims and Any Reverts. But Black Muslims Are The Most Kind Hearted People I Have Come Across. Their Iman is So High And Not To Mention Spiritual.

2) There Are a lot of Extremist! My Dearest Brothers And Sisters, We Must Remain Pious!!! We Can't Let Our Anger Get Between Our Faith And Reltionship With The Almighty. I Know I am The Least Person To Talk, But We All Need to Learn How To Be Patience and Tolerent. We Shouldn't React Violently When The Kuffrs Start Acting Up (Danish Cartoons and Pope Stupid Remarks..To name a Few). All we Can Do Is Act in a Peaceful Way such as Protesting Peacefully Or Simply Ignore It. Actions Like This Will Always Come and Go. I Have Read Stories of Muslims Setting Houses in Fire To Some of The Danish Cartoonists. Should We Act this Way? Noooo.

Qur'an 2:153: O YOU who have attained to faith! Seek aid in steadfast Paitence and prayer: for, behold, God is with those who are patient in adversity.

Qur'an 2:104: YOU who have attained to faith! Do not say [to the Prophet], "Listen to us," but rather say, "Have Paitence with us," and hearken [unto him], since grievous suffering awaits those who deny the truth.

The Most Religious Person Never Lets Anger Get Them, But Remain Paitence. We Humans Lack Paitence.

Also, Some Muslims Need To Stop Attacking Shia Muslims (And Vice Versa) And People of The Book By Calling Them Kaffirs. Don't Get Me Wrong, I Don't Agree With The Shia Teachings Because it Has a lot of Bidahs Same With People of The Book. But I Still Respect Them. Here Is What I Think and Believe, Instead of Calling Them Out, How About Guide Them, Give them Dawah? Remember People, Allah (swt) is The One Who is Going To Judge Everyone On Day of Judgement!

I Remember in One of the Islamic Groups I Am In. Somebody Posted a Thread To Help And Donate Money to a Synagogue That Got Burn. One Salafi in There Said "Why Bother Helping The Misguided." My First Thoughts Were.."What The F----K..Jews Are People of The Book. In This Life We Must Do Charity And Help mankind Whether he Is a Muslim, Jew or a Christian or an Athesit, Hindu and Etc....We Can't Be Extremist!!!. The Prophet (Phuh) Said.."We Shouldn't Be Extreme or Lean Towards The Easy Side, But be in Between. Let's Not Forget Rasulullah (Alaihi Wasallam) said "There's No Compulsion in Religion. "

Anways This is it For Now. These Are The Only Two Problems in this Ummah I Can Think of. If There Are More, Please Feel Free and Express Your Thoughts.

¿Why do Some Latinas Dont Like Latino Men?

Before Anything To My Latinos, Dont Take This Personally!!! Last Time I talk about this subject, one dude got very touchy and started rambling crap.

The Question is, ¿Why do Some Latinas Don't Like Latino Men? Personally, I had it With Them From Experience I Say this. Before I Became Muslim, I dated and talked to Honduren, Puerto Rican, Mexican, Dominican, Cuban, Ecuadorian, Venzuelen Men and so on. I'm Not trying to judge All my Latino Brothers Out there, But A lot of My Latin Brothers Fit in the Sterotype. A lot Are Most Likely 2Cheat (Off Course Dogs Come in Every Race, Creed, and Etc..But I'm Talking About Latino Men in Here)."

Yes I Know That In Our Culture, We have This Machismo Crap. FUCK THAT..Being a player Wont Make You a man as it seems to some stupid men out there..The whole macho shyt needs 2go. In both sides of my family, a lot of the men were players. Interesting huh? This is one of the main reasons why I didnt want to be with a Latino, even if he was a muslim. Better yet, even if he Didn't Look Hispanic/Latino, The thought of him being one, Would have Turn me off!!!As I said from experience, I didnt want to married one. Besides, mixed children come out to be beautiful.

Here are few reasons Why I Don't Like Latino Men that much:

1) INFIDELITY: A lot of the men in both sides of my family cheated. One of my grandfather would spend all his time and money in Whore Houses, while my grandmother had 2look for ways 2make money and feed her children. A lot of you guys do fit the sterotype (---Also, look at our soap operas, movies, song, shows mostly infidelity we see a lot of the time. I compare this to Arab Movies, Songs and etc, its mostly about love.

2) MACHISMO: Ahhhiiiiii Dios Mio. Carajo. A lot of my Latino Brothers Out There Are selfish. I find a lot of them close minded. I say this because I'm crazy and bit wild in a good way. No one was able 2keep up with me like my Husband does (We both are the same). I honestly thought I would never find anyone that can hold up to my level. I'm not saying all My Latino/Hispanic Brothers Are...But a Good Pecentage are. They give a bad name to the good ones out there. I only know few good ones that are open minded, will be good fathers and husbands but the rest, God Bless their future wives.

Besides, if I would have ended up marrying a Latino, One of us would be dead due to my tantrum crazy "psychotic" latina attitude I have And If I would have married one, I would have gotten myself a Puerto Rican or a Brasilan so he can teach me how to dance Samba.

What I Don't About Muslim-Reverts

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Lately I have been hearing and reading from a lot of reverts referring to non-muslims as Kaffirs. This bothers me a lot because I will ask you the question "¿Who Are You 2Judge what Is In Other People's hearts?"God Does that not you or me. Its not your place 2judge what is in other's heart. What if that person is a Muslim By Heart? I would consider a kaffir a person who doesn't beleive in God, But I wouldn't say it in public or address them that way. What you are doing is putting them down. Your basically calling them unbelievers instead of people who aren't exposed to Islam. Dont Forget That Christian and Jews are People of the Book. The difference between a Jew, Christian, or Muslim is our Faith and Reletionship with the Almighty, Allah, Dios, Dieu, Deus, Yeweh. So now I would ask you the question, you have a Christian and Jew, both are God fearing and both serve God and perform good deeds. Would you still call them Kaffirs??????? As I said, it is not your place 2judge what are in other's hearts. They both are God's people. Jews and Christians as well as Muslims will go to heaven.

My thoughts on Those Little Beauty Pagents

Child Beauty Pagents, I'll begin by saying that I dont think and believed that no children should be a child beauty pagent. I understand that every parent thinks their child is special and etc but put your daughter into this? Gimme a Break. These mothers are so pathetic big time. Its like they are so fraustrated or were when they were a kid. This is one of the reasons to pedophiles. Jon Benet is a perfect example. There are a lot of sick people in this evil world. What kind of message is being sent to our daughter or other little girls? In order for you to be beautiful, you must wear make-up and go to extremes? Studies have shown that when little girls are bought up this way, they have real issues with their bodies and physical apperance. Is this the "perfect" message and example we want 2throw???? I was watching a show on the VH1 channel the other day. They asked the young pagents girls "what's in their mind when they are in stage?" They Responded:

"Money... Money... Money... Money."

Wow I Said...When I was around that age, I didnt care about money. I'll tell you I hated barbies but I love the nintendo and digging the backyard just if I was an archeologists. Point is, I was kid and I was living my childhood. Is this what these sick mothers want to teach their daughters? When they get older they become materiasltic, and money hungry because of the image they have implant on their heads. I always ask myself "Do these little girls enjoy doing this or they pretend?" Off course in no TV we will hear what they think. Its a sad case. These children are not giving the chance to live their lives and enjoy their childhood because they are too busy being a mini size life barbies.

My Response to Denmark

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Lately I Have Been Reading A lot of Comments on The Islamic Groups On Myspace About The Danish Incident. A lot of Angry Muslims about The Danish Cartoon. I as a Muslim Don't Blame Them. I Am Upset But I Don't Let Incidents Like That Bother Me. For What? One, Nobody Knows What The Prophet (phuh) look Like. That Picture Can Be From Any Person From Around The World. Heck, It Can Be Your Next Door Neighbor. I Say If The Artists Who Drew That Wanted To Do it Again For The Third Time, Let Him. He Has All The Freewill Power. We Can't Be Extremits. This is What The Kuffr Want Us To Act.

This is Not The First Time an Incident Like This Has Happened. Lets Look In The Past. I Believe It Was Last Year in NYC, They Did a Vulgurus Portray of Prophet Jesus (Phuh). That Upset Me, But I Didn't Let That Get To Me. Why? As I Mention, Everyone Has Freewill. I Always Say, This Life Is Nothing But a Test. In The End, Those Kuffrs Will Pay The Price When They Stand in Front of God. Also, Another Thing I Have Notice..I Don't Know If Any of You Do, But ¿Who Watches The History Channel? Sometimes They Give Shows On the Prophets. One Thing That Digustes Me Is How They Talk About The Prophets. For Example, Prophet Lot (phuh). They Portrayed Him as a Pedaphile, Child Molester, He Sleep With His 2Daughters And a Drunky. The Bible Mentions That, but as We Know Bible Has Been Changed. The Qur'an Talks Differently about Prophet Lot (phuh). The Qur'an says the angels came to warn him To Leave Because The Town Will Be Destroyed. Nowhere in The Qur'an talks Bad About Him. In Fact, the Qur'an Talks About Every Prophets In a Very Respectful Way. All The Prophets Were Immune From Sins And If They Were Going 2Committ a Sin, God Would Send Them a Sign So They Won't Committ Sins.

¿Why Would God Send Prophets That Were Sinful? The Prophets Purpose Was To Deliever God's Message. Another Thing That I Have Notice, Whenever They Show Prophets Preaching, They Always Show Them as Madmen. It Really Upsets Me Because It's Haram (not allowed). These are Prophets From God.

So My Dearests Brothers and Sisters, This is Not The First Time an Incident Like This has Happen. As I Mention, We should't Let Any of This Blasphemous Actions Get Between Our Faiths and Reletionship With God. Even if I Was Still a Christian or born Jew, I Would Be Upset As Well. It's Very Disrespectful And a Sin To Talk Harsh About Any Of The Heavenly Religions. And Very Disrespectul to Talk About Other Religions too. We Must Remind Tolerence And Not Let The Kuffr Blasphemous Actions Get To Us. Remember, On Judgment Day, those people Will Pay.

What is The Biggest Truth You Personally Have Found in Life?

What is The Biggest Truth You Personally Have Found in Life?

If Someone Asked You After Your Many Years of Research, What is The Biggest Truth You Personally Have Found In Life? So What is It, And Try 2Explain a Little.

I Have Been Alive For 24 Years And Over The Last Past 5 Years, I Have Learn A lot From Life. Life May Did Hit Me Hard A lot of Times, But Everything Happens For Reasons.

Here Couple Truth I Found Out About Life:

1- Don’t Trust Anyone. Why? Because You Never Know When You Will Get Slap On The Left Cheek. I Don’t Trust No1, Not Even My Own Shadow. I Don’t Let People In My World Easily. A lot of People May Think of Me as "Weird" But Aren’t We all Are? Everyone in This World is Weird. And, A lot of People May Think I’m Anti-Social. Truth is I’m Not. I Just Don’t Let Anyone In My Little World Easily. I Have been BackStab Loads of Times Before.

2-As Older You Get, You Become Wiser. When I look Back Into the Past, I Always Say "I Wasted And Let Go of A lot of Opportunities." I Don’t Regret Doing Anything In the Past Because My Errors Made Me Who I am Today!!! However, Sometimes I wish I Could Have Thought Couple Things Before I Did Them.

3-"Those people who tell you not to take chances/ They are all missing on what life is about/You only live once so take hold of the chance/Don’t end up like others the same song and dance." This part of the Song ’MotorBreath’ From Metallica says A lot. In this Life, We Should Always Take Risks. Sometimes I Look at Life As a Sick Joke. Why? Because I Always Seen The Rotten Seeds Get What They Want And the Good Seeds Don’t. I Always Say, Sometimes We Must Put The Right Cards On the Table Even if We Have 2Play Dirty. I Am a Big Risk Taker.

4- Politics: Poltics is a sick Joke!!! Don’t Get me Wrong, I Do Love Politics Especially Global Politics, But Politics Isn’t Everything. HUMAN LIFE IS. Regardless What Our Views Are, Human Life is More Important. These Days is Not About Politics Anymore, But It’s About Survival. There are No Truth in Politics. The Truth About Politics is That It’s All a Farce.

And Last As For The Truth of This Life, We Must Find it In Our Own Way! No Law or Some Garbage That Floats Around Will Tell Us How To Live or What It is Right. We Learn Truth From Experience. We Should Always Do What We Want, But We Should Always Keep in Alert Since Things May Not Go The Way We Want!!!